oh well... the outcome is such... my worries finally manifested into truths and facts... now staring back right at my shocked face... but what can i do now? no point being so upset about it when even he is not right? maybe it's really the best option for him, instead of letting him otherwise which might lead him to waste all his time... he facing it well, and so should I then... I just have to hope that this is only 1 isolated event and there would be no follow-ups whatsoever...